Here are a couple books that I have found useful in dealing with the emotional aftermath of experiencing SIDS. As I find more I will post them to this site. If you have trouble locating them then I will see I can help you out by letting you know where I found them.
The SIDS Survival Guide: Information and Comfort for Grieving Family & Friends & Professionals Who Seek to Help Them by Joani Nelson Horchler and Robin Rice Morris.
The Cot Death Cover-Up? by Jim Sprott